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beliefovermisery) wrote2006-08-06 06:40 pm
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Dear Galaxy
Dear Apharsites,
To begin with, I'm going to start with an off-the-top-of-my-head list of Things That Irritate Me About This Game:
1. Wank every othermonth week day hour.
2. Players who participate in such wank who have the nerve to call others childish.
3. Being the unofficial game-therapist for more players than should be necessary. I would mind less if I hadn't been the one to specifically request a Player Relations mod, if one hadn't actually been "hired," and if people didn't still come to me, a player with no title or rank, for help or discussion.
4. The number of times an IC situation has caused OOC drama.
5. That there is no limit to the amount of pups a mun can play at a time.
6. Blanket Statements
7. "Anonymous letters."
Things You should Know About Me:
1. This is the third RP game I have ever been in. Ever.
2. I am one of the younger players.
3. I do go to school full time.
4. During winter and summer breaks, I work full time, waking at 5AM and going to bed at 9PM. I do not work the standard M-F work-week, but I do get 40 hours a week.
5. In every relationship I have ever had, RL or online, I have always, always been the one people come to with their problems. I don't mind this, but I do worry that I'm not always the right person to be helping them.
6. I have known Mandy (Zuko, Hellboy, Paige, Ed, Harth, House) for two years and can count on the fingers of one hand how many days we have gone without speaking to each other either online or on the phone.
I leave the last one separated like that because I have a feeling a lot of people will be hung up on that for a while.
Here's the thing, Apharsites: I'm here to play. I don't care what you, the mun, wants. I don't care what you, the mod, wants. I don't even care what you, the pup, wants. I want a game, I want a plot, I want to tag someone and get a scene. Yes, it's true, the majority of plots run so far have been planned an executed by non-mods.
You know what? I don't care.
We have a meeting-plot right now concerning Harth Fray, To Soul Or Not To Soul, with a side order of Katara and Sokka, To Exile or Not To Exile. We have a Grail Quest to find the Holy Cup of Christ. We have a MALL EXPEDITION. All run by non-mods, all played by a wide variety of pups! I LOVE IT.
Can we continue it?
Not, apparently, without wank.
I love this game. I love playing Sokka, obviously, because he's changed so much from his canon. I don't want to leave.
But when I get online and the first thing I hear is Mandy's taking over the game, Rue isn't modding, Roger's whining again, Saphie's being OOC, you know what I want to do?
Leave. And get the hell away from all of you people that, for whatever reason, care more about the players than the game. We have a GAME. If your character is disgruntled, LET THEM BE DISGRUNTLED, but for god's sake, do you really have to turn an IC issue into an OOC one? Does it really, honestly matter if Zuko wants a dictatorship? Can you not play with that? Does it really matter if Methos challenges him and builds a democracy? Can Methos not handle the government of Apocalyptica going his way? Can Zuko not suck it up and deal with what comes?
I'm sick of this. I don't need this. I'm here to play and this is one of the last times that I will sign on to chat and immediately get messages about the newest wank.
Would you get this upset over Monopoly?
To begin with, I'm going to start with an off-the-top-of-my-head list of Things That Irritate Me About This Game:
1. Wank every other
2. Players who participate in such wank who have the nerve to call others childish.
3. Being the unofficial game-therapist for more players than should be necessary. I would mind less if I hadn't been the one to specifically request a Player Relations mod, if one hadn't actually been "hired," and if people didn't still come to me, a player with no title or rank, for help or discussion.
4. The number of times an IC situation has caused OOC drama.
5. That there is no limit to the amount of pups a mun can play at a time.
6. Blanket Statements
7. "Anonymous letters."
Things You should Know About Me:
1. This is the third RP game I have ever been in. Ever.
2. I am one of the younger players.
3. I do go to school full time.
4. During winter and summer breaks, I work full time, waking at 5AM and going to bed at 9PM. I do not work the standard M-F work-week, but I do get 40 hours a week.
5. In every relationship I have ever had, RL or online, I have always, always been the one people come to with their problems. I don't mind this, but I do worry that I'm not always the right person to be helping them.
6. I have known Mandy (Zuko, Hellboy, Paige, Ed, Harth, House) for two years and can count on the fingers of one hand how many days we have gone without speaking to each other either online or on the phone.
I leave the last one separated like that because I have a feeling a lot of people will be hung up on that for a while.
Here's the thing, Apharsites: I'm here to play. I don't care what you, the mun, wants. I don't care what you, the mod, wants. I don't even care what you, the pup, wants. I want a game, I want a plot, I want to tag someone and get a scene. Yes, it's true, the majority of plots run so far have been planned an executed by non-mods.
You know what? I don't care.
We have a meeting-plot right now concerning Harth Fray, To Soul Or Not To Soul, with a side order of Katara and Sokka, To Exile or Not To Exile. We have a Grail Quest to find the Holy Cup of Christ. We have a MALL EXPEDITION. All run by non-mods, all played by a wide variety of pups! I LOVE IT.
Can we continue it?
Not, apparently, without wank.
I love this game. I love playing Sokka, obviously, because he's changed so much from his canon. I don't want to leave.
But when I get online and the first thing I hear is Mandy's taking over the game, Rue isn't modding, Roger's whining again, Saphie's being OOC, you know what I want to do?
Leave. And get the hell away from all of you people that, for whatever reason, care more about the players than the game. We have a GAME. If your character is disgruntled, LET THEM BE DISGRUNTLED, but for god's sake, do you really have to turn an IC issue into an OOC one? Does it really, honestly matter if Zuko wants a dictatorship? Can you not play with that? Does it really matter if Methos challenges him and builds a democracy? Can Methos not handle the government of Apocalyptica going his way? Can Zuko not suck it up and deal with what comes?
I'm sick of this. I don't need this. I'm here to play and this is one of the last times that I will sign on to chat and immediately get messages about the newest wank.
Would you get this upset over Monopoly?
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But this is kind of why I don't always participate in apharsites, as much as I love and also have RL things to deal with. Wankery. I love everyone, I do, but I try to stay out of the OOC issues. It's a game, nothing serious -- roll with it, everyone, LAWL.
Also. *hugs* *MANY HUGS FOR YOU*
I feel worse for you, for taking the brunt of these issues.
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Are people going to constantly threaten to leave and take the board with them when they go? Because really, that's something I can do without.
I just kind of have to ask:
When you posted this what did you hope to accomplish?
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I posted this to make public my frustrations - that's it. What I hope to accomplish is that other people know what my frustrations are. I didn't post this to my private journal because not enough people who are affiliated with this game would see it.
Does it bother you that I voiced complaints publicly about a game I actively participate in, or that I did it in a manner that is offensive to others?
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No, I'm not bothered. I'm also not offended. I used to be an officer in an 80 person LARP, trust me when I say that there's little about gaming that surprises me anymore.
The reason I asked what your intentions were is because posts like yours tend to fan the flames rather than actually extinguish them.
Though I do have to admit that I'd much prefer that the people with the issues voice them rather than stew in them. Holding in that much hostility just isn't healthy.
- Mikemun.
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I thought about that - fanning the flames rather than extinguishing them. But, at the same time, I figured I might as well say what I've been thinking and see how the responses go. I'm perfectly aware that this will mean absolutely nothing if the next time there's wank, I don't follow through. That would fan the flames.
If someone causes drama as a direct result of this letter, I will leave.
Bolded even. Someone screencap this so you can yell at me if I don't do it later.
Agreed in all other respects.
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I'm promising (or threatening) to leave because I've planned to many times and never followed through. It's more for myself than anyone else, and the fact thaht it's public means I'll get a lot of shit if I don't follow through-- and following through is always for great justice.
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Rue wants to state though that Rue isn't modding not because of any of you -- Rue isn't modding because Rue's biology wanted her to take a break.
And except for #5, because I do not think limits are at all fun, I agree to everything. (And no that comment is not up for discussion, if there's anyone around just WAITING TO WANK OMG. Do not comment on it.)
We all love you, Li, or at least I sure as hell think we do.
I know I do.
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There is love on a personal level of Rue and Li, just not always mod and player. :)
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The two games I joined before this one also have tried to reduce impulsive applications capping the number of characters a player can apply for in a month. This theoretically would give the player time to think about whether they really want to and really would play a character. That is something we could do at Apharsites if the other two mods wished to pursue it.
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This is because I work 9 to 5, five days a week, with a 90-minute commute each way. And I am very often tired, at the end of the day. It is not conducive to RP.
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To be completely and totally honest with you? That should have been something you considered before taking on the responsibility of a game that depends entirely on participation.
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*shrugs*
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Li? Love you. A lot.
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But there is so much love for everyone when there is no pointless fighting.
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It's REALLY HARD to see both sides when one side won't come to me.
I don't dislike anyone. I want to like, and be friends with, everyone in this game. But some people have made it clear that they don't want that, so. I can only do so much.
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But then I have people who aren't even INVOLVED telling me they don't think I'm handling it right, and I don't have the authority to tell them to butt out, so I sit there and take all of the hostility directed personally at me without recourse.
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I, personally, have never had the opportunity to come to you or have you come to me as a mod. So, basically, this is me talking out of my ass. But I haven't thought it was your fault that people aren't using the PR mod, so much as unfortunate circumstances that make the job run less smoothly than it should.
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It is hard, because of course my friends are going to come to me first. Especially if they think I may have better success at dealing with it thanks to my in-game position. (To which I say: HA. I've had better success working out my own personal issues with people I had direct problems with, but that's another story.) And of course I'm going to want to work things out for them, but... the other thing is, I'm perfectly happy to talk to everyone, to hear both sides of the story. I have defended the opposite side of every argument to the ones complaining to me. People don't see that, and then I get frustrated with those people.
That said, my frustration? Usually really temporary. There's nobody in this game that I'm unwilling to be friends or to help out with an issue if they'll talk to me.
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She is fair, and willing to work with anyone who presents their viewpoint/issues. One cannot accuse anyone us of being biased until they've given them a chance.